"I want my wife to be educated so I can have good conversations with her!"
This should be made the official motto of the mindraped goy simps.
They simply do not have an accurate theory of mind for women. They have fallen for the feminist liberal myth that men and women are mentally the same, despite the Prophet ﷺ telling them explicitly otherwise.
Women do not have the interest nor the capacity to have the deep intellectual conversations that you have with the bros. They find it boring, no matter how educated they are.
This is why none of the great philosophers of history were women. It's because abstract thought is boring to them and they can't do it. The best philosophical contribution women have made is via fictional literature, i.e., stories which, yes, have intellectual merit, but it's just not abstract.
When you get married, you will realize this first hand.
That doesn't mean you can't have fun conversations with your wife. But its not going to be like the bro sessions.
My wife sometimes asks me, what did you talk about with your friends last night. I tell her: politics, business opportunities, history, jinn stories, some fiqh issue that clashes with modernity, etc. It doesnt even matter the education level of the friends. These are the kinds of topics guys are interested in doscussing.
She is shocked.
I ask her what she talked about with her friends: relationship updates, whose kids are doing what, who traveled where, who got a new whatever, etc. Incredibly boring stuff for men but they love it. This is what they WILLINGLY choose to talk about in their women gatherings, even the highly educated ones.
Ultimately, you don't want your wife to be another bro. The fact that she is mentally different is part of the attraction. This is a subtle point but the fact that she is mentally deficient is another part of the attraction and fun. Opposites attract.
Just because she is rationally deficient, does that mean I'm always right, I know everything, I win all the arguments? Not at all.
In the same hadith mentioning the deficiency in intellect/rationality of women, the Prophet ﷺ said:
“I have not seen anyone who can overcome the intellect of a resolute man more than one of you [women].”
Women can best you but not with their intellect. That's what makes them attractive and interesting to men.
It's also like the sahih hadith:
“Treat women well, for woman was created from a rib. The most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So treat women well.”
Women are crooked in the head. Simps think that sending women to secular college or Azhar is going to straighten them out and they can have deep conversations. 😆 grow up please. Embrace the crookedness and you will realize why Adam loved Eve so much.
Btw show me where in the sirah the Prophet ﷺ had any deep intellectual conversations with his wives, who were objectively the best and smartest women. You'll find a lot of examples of them joking and having fun though.
Anyway, this was some of the material discussed in Husband School we had last spring. Hopefully we'll have another retreat soon.
